Thursday, December 13, 2012

Conferencing Over Castigation




So for anyone that knows me very will, you probably have heard me talk about restorative justice and community conferencing. In case you don't know what restorative justice is, its basically a broad paradigm that focus on healing problems though dialogue. The goal of restorative justice is to address multiple levels of a conflict and to aid individuals directly or indirectly affected by the crime at hand. Its an awesome concept and has been empirically proven as more effective than our typical criminal justice system. If you want to know more, just google it. There is a ton of information. 

Anyway, just wanted to pass this on to anyone who is interested. I recently met with Athens Mediation who shared this video with me, definitely empowering and I highly recommend checking it out. 


This video shows the power of dialog and is an awesome example what working together within our community can do. The thing is, it doesn't just start or end with events like the ones shown in this video. If we stopped worrying so much about a labeling people as deviant, and instead understood why they do what they do, maybe we wouldn't have 7.3 MILLION individuals under the supervision of the criminal justice system. If you don't think that you care for any other reason, then you should understand how much money this is out of your pocket, your tax dollars. Or maybe you can look past the money, and focus on humanity. We may find forgiveness is an essential element of conflict resolution, not just the castigation of your neighbor. Through the values and goals of restorative programming, we may find a nation that focuses not on punishment but restoration. We may find communities where offenders are not labeled and disenfranchised, but given forgiveness for their crimes. Finally, we may, with careful and diligent efforts by practitioners, transcend laws from those restricted by technicalities and loopholes to those that encompass their true intention— the protection of society.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Love like a life depends on it


Love is a renewable resource; however, its deficiency is putting the livelihood of our world in grave danger. Unlike other resources, Love does not risk depletion through overuse, instead it thrives in an environment that relies upon its over-consumption  Only through a distribution of this resource can its presence be multiplied. Love does not fear exposure and gluttony, for consumers are only able to utilize a particular threshold before they will begin to produce it themselves. When all else is gone, when all other resources have been depleted and humanity is on the edge of starvation, Love may keep us alive.

In a world that often seems so cold, so focused on individualized reward and success, Love may be all we have to guide our transactions with others. It voids hate and destroys tension posed by conflicting visions. It allows for empathy for those we fear and believe we will never understand. It is the capacity to put others needs in front of your own. It is the ability to feel the pain that others feel. It is only feeling that may resonate between two strangers. It connects us with someone living 10,000 miles away. It is what holds our world together.

Love its indigenous to every individual to walk this earth, though some may struggle to recognize it. As you strive to find your purpose, look no further than the discovery of this valuable commodity in our society. When you find it, redistribute it to everyone you know, for you never know who else is on searching for it.

Love your friends, Love your neighbor, Love family, and Love a stranger. Love the ones who are deceased, Love the ones who need it the least.  Love your peers and your mother, Love your friends and Love your brother. Love your God, who ever it may be, Love the air or Love a tree. Love the country to which you call home, Love the streets you often roam. Love for few or Love for all, show it big or show it small.  

It doesn’t matter who how or to who you show it, but show Love every day. Someone’s life depends on it.